and your partner is a male..
Rat
Both have independent and active spirits. But he will be very irked by her restlessness and inconsistency. She on the other hand, will be unhappy and nervous with all his bickering ways. They cannot appreciate each other's way of thinking and may not try hard to work together.
Ox
Not many favorable aspects for this match. She is carefree and uninhibited and he is industrious and down to earth. He wants a well organized and pleasant home and she is too restless to stay pinned down. She needs freedom and diversion. He cannot comprehend her instability and lack of devotion to him. Difficult for either to find complete harmony.
Tiger
Well-balanced and harmonious pair. They are both out going, fiery and spirited. While the Tiger fights for a course, the practical Horse wife will direct both their energies to more rewarding pursuits. He will like her quick and intelligent mind and she can steer him towards worthwhile objectives. Neither is domesticated enough to be too possessive. He is thoughtful and affectionate when humored, and she is flexible enough to put up with his unpredictability. They will have a passionate relationship and much need for each other's company.
Rabbit/Cat
They may find it difficult and apt to consider things very carefully before passing judgement . She is governed by her emotions and intutions. They are both too practical or too self-absorbed to make any great effort at adjusting to each other. She is bored by is deliberation and sensitivity; he finds her thoughtless, inconstant and mercenary. One prefers rest and solitude; the other is constantly on the go. The union could never work at such different paces.
Dragon
The Horse lady will be clever and resourceful enough to stretch whatever income Mr Dragon brings home. But the serious Dragon may find her restless and not too crazy about a steady diet of housework. Life will be more fruitful and delightful for both if they live in the city and Mrs Horse keeps a job as well as manages her home. Actually both parties perform better when given variety and freedom. The constantly aspiring Dragon will find his wife's practicality very profitable, while she finds him strong and reliable.
Snake
Each has a different approach to life. He is cautious, tenacious and strong-willed - his goals are long-term. She is adventurous, mercurial and impatient. She cares more for the joys of the moment. He is consistent in his endeavours; she is impulsive, quick-witted but inconsistent. He finds her irresponsible and hard to keep up with, while she dislikes his serious calm and deliberate mental deductions. Not a very satisfying union for either.
Horse
Teamwork and cooperation are possible because they can work at similar speeds. It would be better if they were born in different seasons so as to provide more variety to their relationship. Both are passionate but independent and restless. Their witty, lively, materialistic and adventurous personalities may make life very hectic but this does not guarantee that they will get anywhere unless one of them is skillful enough to control the other. They may not be able to build a solid foundation for a home as they are both bored by routine and restrictions.
Sheep
He is domesticated and home-loving enough to provide a secure base for the restless Horse lady. On the other hand, she is happy and affable enough to complement his depressed moods. He may be jealous and possessive while she is independent and impulsive. But the Horse is not sensitive enough to take the Sheep's self-pitying ways too seriously. She is capable, delightful and quick on catching on to delicate signals. He could curb her freedom by providing her with enough variety and attractive options to stay and spice up his life. A strong and possibly enduring marriage.
Monkey
Both partners in this union are versatile, flexible and outgoing. Whether or not they can coexist in a spirit of goodwill will rest largely on their efforts to control their self-centred personalities. Neither is long on endurance, and they will not persevere in working out their differences if one finds the other lagging behind. They are both independent and practical individuals who can cooperate well if they want to, as they possess the same quick mind and keen faculties.
Rooster
A smooth marriage is not indicated as these two strong minded individuals are easily irritated by each other. He can be provocative and undiplomatic and will castigate her for her high living and lack of steadiness. But she is too sophisticated, witty and flamboyant to settle for the simple and hard-working life he has planned. The Rooster may have grandiose ideas but his methods are dependable and precise. In the opposite corner, the Horse may be more practical and realistic about her goals but she is unpredictable and inconsistent in her method of application. He cannot comprehend her changeable ways and she cannot abide his strict routine and obsession with facts and figures.
Dog
This will be a happy and fruitful match, as these two people have a sound understanding of each other's needs and deficiencies. The Dog is honorable and intelligent enough to work well with the capable Horse. He also admires her keen knowledge of timing and strategy, while she finds him reasonable and practical enough to depend on. They will both get the cooperation they seek and still be able to enjoy the degree of individualism and independence they require.
Boar
They are both pleasure seekers and have very sociable personalities and could benefit each other to a certain extent. She is imaginative and resourceful while he is dependable and good natured. The Boar admires the Horse's animated and cheerful ways, and she finds his devotion and honest fortitude very pleasing. They both understand the value of compromise and will have an active and involved marriage without stepping on each other's toes. They will opt to live their life to the fullest. On the darker side, neither part will worry too much about tomorrow.